JUST FOR A QUICK GLANCE
2008/9/3
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I came back to home after visiting my grandfather. It was a nice visiting for me.
The place where my ancestors lived along the centuries is a countryside of Malatya. At first I would like to give some short information about Malatya which is located in southeastern Turkey. Malatya is well-known for its apricot orchards as being the world’s leading apricot producer and the name of the fruit is synonymous with the city itself. Additional to that, Malatya prides itself for having raised two out of the eleven Presidents of Turkey to date.
Let’s come to my visiting notes, after the short infos of Malatya. Our journey lasted 16 hours to get the central of Malatya from İstanbul by bus.
Before going to the countryside where my grandfather lives, we spent most of the times of our first day in the central of Malatya and bought the necessary things to bring with us to there. The temperature reached to 40C at that day (If I am not mistaken) but It was very bearable owing to having dry summer in Malatya.![]()
Manu, I was looking forward to eating ‘kağıt kebabı’ where I ate last year but I was disappointed to see it was closed ( probably for the time being in order to have
the building repaired or painted) so that we went for another restaurant and ate the same local dish but it was not as delicious as I ate last year.![]()
Manu, ‘Kağıt kebabı’ is one of the most important local specialities which is a dish made of lamb and vegetables broiled in a wrapper, which is usually oily paper.
Here is a Picture of us taken in the restaurant:
After that we went to the best part of the city named Kernek where I love visiting much .
And then we left Malatya in order to go to countryside. At first It took an hour to get the central after departure of Malatya then we hired a taxi to go to exact place of where we want to go. It took almost 20 min by taxi. As you can imagine it was a long journey to get the exact place where my grandfather lives. Here is a Picture of where I went exactly.
How nice it was to see my grandfather again after a year later. As he is the person, I adore and have a great respect to my lovely, hardworking, considerate and kind grandfa. If I keep on writting Erina about him, believe me, I will write so many adjectives in order to describe what I see in my grandfather so that it might take pages
but writting roughly is enough, is not it, Erina? ![]()
Despite his age, I saw him fine and healthy. Thanks God! ![]()
I and my grandfather chatted a lot together as always. I had to speak loudly. Otherwise he does not hear properly owing to his age so instead I listened to him. ![]()
And what comes to my mind now is the barbecue we had . Here are a few pictures of the place.
Dear readers, While we were there, the water did not reach the taps of houses for four days owing to cleaning of reservoir. We had to go to fountain to bring water to home. During centuries people used to carry water from fountains to their houses till they had taps in their houses. Here is the fountain I went. The water is cold and tasty especially under the sun. ![]()
By the way, almost each house has a cat. This is the cat of my grandmother’s (my father’s mum). I do not like cats. ![]()
What about this family.![]()
They are escaping from me while I was trying to take a Picture of them!
I only took pictures of my very near around. I did not stroll around this year instead I was at home or nearby home so near to my grandfather. ![]()
And my mum and my father’s sister making (traditional) bread outside.
And the day came to hug and say ‘goodbye’ to eachother with my grandfather. Our journey lasted almost 14 hours to get back to IstanbuI by car which was driven by my mum’s brother.
We gave breaks according to our desires on the way , so that we stopped at Hacı Bektash Veli (Hajji Bektash Wali) Museum in Nevşehir. It was my second time to be there while it was the first time for the rest of the group.
Dear all, Hajji Bektash Wali is widely known as a Sufi and social reformer who initiated equality between the sexes, equal opportunity and education for women, and a down-to-earth mystical practice that is formulated in the famous quotation: "Be master of your tongue, your hand, and your stomach." He lived approximately from 1209-1271 in Anatolia.
Here is a summary of his lifeview which was also written in the Museum I was.
• Any road that doesn’t follow science, ends in darkness,
• Give education to women,
• Control on your tongue, hands and waist,
• The greatest book to read is man himself,
• Honesty is the door of a friend,
• Being a teacher is to give, not to take,
• The universe is for man, and man for the universe,
• Science illuminates the paths of truth,
• We travel in the way of science, comprehension and human love,
• Clean where you’ve settled and deserve the money you’ve made,
• Let’s be one, be big and energetic,
• Don’t hurt anyone, even though you’ve been hurt,
• Don’t ask anyone for anything that would be difficult for you to do,
• Don’t blame any nation or individual,
• Blessed are those who illuminate the darkness of thought,
• Keep on searching, and you’ll find,
• The beauty of the face consists of the words you speak,
• Don’t forget that even your enemy is human,
• The biggest God-given miracle is work,
• In the language of friendly conversation, you can’t discriminate
between man and woman,
• Everything God has created is in order,
• To us, there’s no difference between man and woman,
• If you think there is, you’re mistaken.
I sat nearby his tomb and represented my regards to him and his fellow’s and I prayed. Here is a Picture taken inside the building. When one passes through the door, one finds oneself in front of his tomb.
That’s all for this month.
Take care of yourselves, ![]()
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As of me, I do not play saz but I love listenning Turkish folk music very much. Music is universal,isn’t it?
I suppose, one does not need knowing the whole song or the language of song but I suppose it is about emotions which can be captured easily. Music erases the borders.
and some other relatives live. I would like to report some things from there next month. 


We go on the road of no return. 
Who knows?
Elderly people tend to be very different from people who are at other stages of life when it comes to thinking about ‘life’ and making ‘definations’. This is the times when one finds oneself more thinking over past and occurrence of world, life and such things more than ever. What I have seen mostly is that when I look at elderly.
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